June 8, 2011

“Slut” Can Mean A Lot of Things, But “No” Is Always “No” (trigger alert)

I feel his body against mine, and then I feel his erect penis on the small of my back. I squirm, pressing myself against the wall, but he puts a hand over my mouth, hissing into my ear to be quiet so no one hears. He pulls my underwear down and struggles to align his penis with my vagina as I try to push him away and utter muffled cries. He penetrates me.

He flips me onto my stomach, repositioning himself on top of me. He pushes my face down, his weight crushing the breath from me. I struggle to say, “No,” and he growls, “Quiet bitch,” as he yanks my arms back.

“Aw fuck – red! Red!

“Oh god, I’m so sorry! Are you all right?”

I sit up, immediately released from his hold, and roll my shoulders. “Yeah, you just grabbed me sort of weird and it hurt…and not in a good way.”

He apologizes again and I assure him it’s all right.

I shower, dress, and kiss him on the cheek as I depart for SlutWalk LA.


3 Comments »

  1. I dunno … I suppose you’re making a point using an extreme satyrical paradox … or perhaps I just don’t get it.

    The Ms Magazine link in another port (http://msmagazine.com/blog/blog/2011/05/20/to-reclaim-slut-or-not-to-reclaim-slut-is-that-the-question/) was helpful.

    Comment by Cecilieaux Bois de Murier — June 9, 2011 @ 5:36 am

  2. This actually makes a lot of sense to me. No always means no, even if it is in the form of a safe word. However, I think that women should not dress like sluts because it is thought that it makes them more susceptible to rape, but simply because it rarely, if ever, actually looks good.

    It’s not nice to fall out of a pub (which I’m sure a few people have done) with a tiny mini skirt, letting the whole world see your nether regions. I would much rather do that in a pair of jeans 😛

    Comment by ThatAustralianChick — July 6, 2011 @ 1:38 am

  3. Am I born and existing in this world just to satisfy the men who wield their penis like a sword? Am I born just to endure pain for the pleasure of men? Am I considered just a hole and not a whole? Am I to bear the life time of pain – say menstrual pain, sexual pain, child birth pain etc because I have a different anatomy. I wish I had a penis because:

    (1) you can pee standing up
    (2) you don’t bleed once a month
    (3) don’t have to go the gynecologist get pap tests and deal with other female problems
    (4) you don’t have to give birth
    (5) you get more pleasure out of sex
    (6) you don’t get raped
    (7) you don’t get the fishy/unpleasant odour/yeast infections,etc
    (8) I know I would have a big erection haha
    (9) I could know what if feels like to get head
    (10) I would play with myself everyday couple times a day
    (11) I could brag about it being big like all guys do!!
    (12) I wouldn’t get lectured about telling to suck penis and how it is that is not ladylike not to suck it. Disgusting !!
    (13) I can pee on people/off of buildings

    Comment by Urmila Mathondkar — June 14, 2012 @ 2:59 am

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