Originally posted at Pigtail Pals by Melissa Wardy. Cross-posted with permission.

My view of a day spent in a Cape Town township, South Africa.

Sisters, wives,  mothers, daughters, grandmothers, aunts, neighbors, friends, schoolmates, and coworkers.  The women of our world.

Yet in many places of the world, today will pass without celebration. Odds are good somewhere a woman will cradle a starving or sick child. Somewhere a woman will receive verbal threats or a physical blow from an intimate partner. Somewhere a girl will be raped as she walks to school. Somewhere a woman will walk miles for the clean water she needs to feed her family the one meal a day they can afford.

Somewhere a woman will be informed she has lost her job because she had taken time off to birth a child. Somewhere a woman will take home a paycheck that is nearly 1/3 less than that of the guy in the office next to her, although they do the same job. Somewhere a girl will sit in a classroom and be too timid to raise her hand. Somewhere a woman will give up on political ambitions.

All of those things have just happened in the time it took you to read those sentences.

None of these stories have changed in the 100 years we have celebrated women on this day. But still, we celebrate. Because for over 100 years the voices of women have not been silenced, their dreams have not been swept away despite often times incredible odds, their ambitions have been fulfilled despite being met with resistance. Women have always been strong. We have to be. We bear the weight of the world.

Women do 2/3 of the world’s work, earn 10% of the income, and own 1% of the land.

70 million girls are denied access to education in our world, and another 60 million will be sexually assaulted on their way to school.

That all seems far removed from me, as I sit in my comfortable home, typing on my laptop and fetching my son snacks while my daughter is playing at her preschool. It seems as far away as the photo above, that I took during a trip to South Africa in 2003. The children in the foreground danced around us as we unloaded treats from our pockets, and clung to our hands as we talked to the women gathered around those cement basins doing their wash. Do you see the women just right of center, in the white shirt and jean skirt? She was my age when I was on that trip – 25. She had a baby with her, which she later wrapped to her body as she carried her bundled wash on her head. She invited me to walk with her, calling me Tante Melissa. Auntie Melissa. Within minutes we had become sisters. We had nothing in common. Our worlds so different we could have been from separate planets. But still, she offered me smiles and we held hands while we walked. She was proud to show me around. I was honored she accepted me as her friend. When the combi drove away late in the afternoon, she was standing there, waving goodbye to me. I pressed my hand to the glass as I watched her get smaller and smaller.

That trip changed my life. Africa has a way of doing that to you. I have not been able to go back, as now I have my own two babes to carry around. I cannot leave them yet for several weeks at a time, so my return trip will wait. But my compassion does not have to.

Today I will celebrate the women in my world. I will send messages to the family members and colleagues who inspire me. I will thank the teachers at my daughters school. I will call a friend to say hello. I will inspire sisterhood in others. I strongly believe that sisterhood – the power of women coming together and working together – is the final untapped natural resource of our world. And it is continually renewed, with the birth of each new baby girl. We are all sisters.

There are only two IWD events in my entire state. But I won’t let that limit me. I do not believe in limitations. I will not let the comfort of my day-to-day routine in my predictable suburban neighborhood, in my cozy suburban home, make me blind to what we all need to be seeing.

So how can you change the world from where you are?

-Think globally, and donate to the amazing efforts of The Girl Effect,  Charity Water,  Kiva, and  Heifer International.

-Think locally and donate to a women’s shelter, food pantry,  Girls Inc, write a letter to a woman soldier, or offer assistance to a family you know that is in need.

-Write a letter and thank your mama.

-Give flowers to a friend or mentor with a hand written note telling her why you honor her.

-Over tip the waitress.

-Stand up and walk over to a nearby office or cubicle and tell a colleague you appreciate them.

-Cook a meal for a neighbor. Or get together with a neighbor and cook some meals for a single mom, a new mom, or a widow.

-Invite that single mom or widow into your home for dinner.

-Round up old toys and books and donate them to a crisis nursery.

-Send cards to your closest girlfriends, thanking them for having your back.

-Bake some cookies with the kids and take them to teachers or nurses on the maternity ward, thanking them for what they do for children.

-Sit down with your children and go through a book or website that shares the biographies of the intrepid women who brought us to this day.

-Draw self portraits with your girl, and help her write down her attributes that make her unique and wonderful.

-Send a note to a former teacher. Do you know how important teachers are?

-Make a commitment to offer more grace and kindness to other women.

-And finally, tonight, when all is quiet and you have your mind all your own, write a letter to yourself. Offer gratitude for everything you have in life. Write down those dreams you are too shy to say out loud, and acknowledge the dreams you’ve already made come true. Write down some happy memories from the last year, and new ones you hope to create. Take the chance to inspire yourself.

From me to you, Happy 100th International Women’s Day. Cheers to us, and let’s prepare to celebrate 100 more!